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Seattle Death Doulas

Directory

Death doulas, Puget Sound.

Practitioners listed below are publicly identified as offering end-of-life doula services in our region. Each link goes directly to their own site, where you can reach them for a free first conversation. We don't take referral fees. We don't rank. We just gather what's already out there and try to make it easier to find.

Listings are illustrative and drawn from publicly available information. Availability, services, and pricing change. Verify all details with each practitioner directly. To join the directory or update a listing, see Contact.

Seattle Area

5 practitioners
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Neshia Alaovae

A Thoughtful Death

Seattle

Neshia connects cultural wisdom, ancestral resilience, and BIPOC joy to create empowered possibilities for how we live and how we die. A licensed mental health counselor with over a decade of experience supporting people navigating trauma, grief, and cultural identity, she thinks of herself as a death companion. Her practice offers end-of-life consultation and support for people wanting a more intentional experience with death.

Offers

  • End-of-life consultation
  • Grief support
  • Cultural and identity-rooted care
  • Family advocacy

Training

Licensed Mental Health Counselor · Compassionate Companion experience

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Bhakti Watts

Bhakti Watts, End of Life Doula

Seattle

“Our bodies contain so much wisdom. They know how and when to heal themselves and they know how and when to die.” Bhakti helps individuals and their loved ones navigate the process of death and grief by sitting vigil, creating legacy projects, planning and leading memorials. She also offers Reiki, grief workshops, and community education on traditional burial and after-death care choices.

Offers

  • Vigil sitting
  • Legacy projects
  • Memorial planning
  • Reiki
  • Grief workshops
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Kathleen Putnam

Coaching With Kathleen

Seattle

An end-of-life doula and coach offering loving guidance through decision-making at the end of life and the rollercoaster of grief and loss. Kathleen brings a career as educator, coach, and healthcare provider, and is part of the Gentle Passage Doula Collective. She offers end-of-life planning, respite, companionship, legacy work, end-of-life celebration planning, and eulogy craftsmanship.

Offers

  • End-of-life planning
  • Respite and companionship
  • Legacy work
  • Celebration planning
  • Grief coaching

Training

Sacred Passage End of Life Doula · Certified End of Life Grief Coach · Holding Space Consultant

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Kathy Bates

Compassionate Doula

Greater Seattle + Snohomish County

A certified Sacred End of Life Doula offering an open heart, deep compassion, and steady support to the dying and their loved ones. With a 25-year career as a social worker and geriatric mental health specialist in skilled nursing facilities, Kathy brings rare experience attending many deaths. Her practice holds sacred space in a way that respects each person’s beliefs, values, and culture.

Offers

  • Vigil and bedside support
  • Sacred space holding
  • Family support
  • Geriatric end-of-life care

Training

Certified Sacred End of Life Doula

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Sahara Pirie

Steady Ground Doula

Seattle

A gentle, holistic companion through one of life’s most sacred transitions. Sahara offers heartfelt conversations about wishes and fears, support with essential paperwork and planning, meaningful legacy projects, vigil sitting, and grounded presence for the dying and their loved ones. “No templates, no one-size-fits-all approaches. What matters most is what you want, and how you wish to be supported.”

Offers

  • Wishes conversations
  • Advance planning paperwork
  • Legacy projects
  • Vigil sitting
  • Family support

Snohomish County

2 practitioners
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Keli Schurman-Darby

Your Whole Life Doula

King + Snohomish Counties (virtual support available)

Keli believes the end of life deserves the same care, intention, and compassion as the beginning. With a calm presence and deep respect for each person’s unique journey, she offers emotional, practical, and informational support before, during, and after death. Her approach is warm, nonjudgmental, and deeply person-centered, honoring cultural values, spiritual beliefs, and personal preferences.

Offers

  • Bedside companionship
  • Life-review and legacy
  • Advance care planning
  • Education on the dying process
  • Family support
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Dolly

Caring Passages

Tulalip, Marysville, Arlington, North Everett

A retired RN with over 40 years in healthcare, specializing in geriatrics and holistic care since 2001. Dolly offers comfort, peace, and aid in last wishes: bedside presence, resource lists, lasting memories, art, Reiki, massage, imagery, music, and spiritual and cultural care. She supports everyone including the aged, veterans, communities of color, LGBTQA+ folks, and the unhoused.

Offers

  • Bedside care
  • Holistic care (Reiki, massage, imagery)
  • Spiritual and cultural support
  • Memory and legacy

Training

RN (40+ years) · EOLD trainings

Western Washington

1 practitioner
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Aisha Jacqueline

Conscious Life & Death

Western Washington (virtual anywhere)

An interfaith chaplain, end-of-life planner, and death doula whose work bridges the sacred and practical. Aisha brings steady spiritual presence alongside thoughtful preparation during life’s sacred thresholds. Trained as a Hakima (Universal Chaplaincy), in Islamic end-of-life and palliative care, and as a David Kessler–certified grief educator, she carries an intercultural lens shaped by time in West Africa.

Offers

  • Spiritual care and chaplaincy
  • End-of-life planning
  • Grief education
  • Tragic-loss first response
  • Interfaith ceremony

Training

Going with Grace trained · Certified Grief Educator (David Kessler) · Hakima / Universal Chaplaincy

Organizations and training centers

Local institutions worth knowing.

A Sacred Passing

Seattle-based nonprofit offering community and professional death-care education, including death doula training, end-of-life planning, VSED & MAID resources, and a place to die.

asacredpassing.org →

People's Memorial Association

Seattle nonprofit since 1939, providing free classes on end-of-life planning, funeral arrangements, advance directives, green burial, human composting, and more.

peoplesmemorial.org →

End of Life Washington

Statewide advocacy and resource hub for end-of-life choice, including Death with Dignity navigation, advance care planning, and clinician education.

endoflifewa.org →

National directories

For practitioners beyond our directory, NEDA and INELDA maintain national, searchable listings of certified end-of-life doulas.

For practitioners

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